My cousin is going to be (step) mother of the bride soon. For many reasons she wants to look and feel a million dollars. WHAT are your tip tips for choosing an outfit. The wedding is end of may, WHEN shall we go shopping? WHERE shall we shop (Birmingham is half way between us) shall I book a personal shopper for her? Do people get changed at night still? Personally i think its a tad passé not to mention expensive! Anyway over to you....