You know those ladies that you see - the older ones who aren't necessarily beauties but you can't take you eyes off them as they are so damn chic? Thinking immaculate white hair closely-cropped, great red lips,cashmere and chunky hammered silver jewellery. Where the hell do they get their bangles n stuff. I want to be one of these ladies when I grow up (am 41). How the hell do they do it?