Shop my DC wear perfume all the time... Being a good mother is too dull 
Hopefully YAWYW will help you to identify if you are stuck for some reason. It is not a checklist of clothes and styles. It goes much deeper - it helps you to see why you might be stuck and helps you to take steps to explore new things. The Nina Garcia book is a list of 100 classic clothes and accessories - it helped me to identify a few gaps, but most of all gave me confidence to keep doing my own thing.
Personally, the skinnies-top-scarf Holy Trinity bores me right now. Wearing bootcuts or flares with a white shirt or a vest and a fitted jacket is much more satisfying. I also love the simplicity of any type of dress (bodycon/fitted, full-skirt, minimalist A-line). My favorite transitional combination is coat dresses over skinnies or pseudo leather leggings. Also look forward to wearing my feather vest and fur stole with sweater dresses. Oh and leather jacket over chiffon prom dress...
Shop & all others, wanted to mention that Selected Femme / Vila / Only / Pieces / Vero Moda is a Danish high street conglomerate really worth exploring. Vila and Selected Femme are aimed at our age group - Only is more teen and 20sth territory. I supplement my wardrobe from them - if I need cheap and cheerful non-tatty clothes that are not a huge investment, I often find something from them. Have a great leather bag and leather coat and a sweater dress and a summer coat and a few belts and some other things from them. Quality is variable but almost always better than H&M and Zara. Unfortunately polyester is making big inroads there too.
Mellow early Sept weather. Hot and sunny during the day - evenings lovely and nights bordering on cold. Sitting on roof terace, DD2 playing with water, the sky is perfectly blue and buildings around us warm ochres and yellows.
After a lunch of risotto ai funghi with a dessert of fresh figs, cheese, poppy seed rolls and great Trentino wine, we went to Galleria Nazionale di Belle Arti to see the last day of the Andy Warhol exhibition. The museum is really nice - lots of internationally unknown artists, particularly enjoyed the over the top symbolists and Italian 19th century realism - magnificent canvases. I also love 1920s and 1930s art and architecture, some very interesting things plus lots of room for DC to run around. Wore the Mondrian, black ballet flats and my red python bag.
Have seen a few Italian women looking really good in deep red polo shirts and dark floor-length flared jeans. Not boring "I play golf and am stuffy" but somehow really effortlessly good. A surprise, am not a fan of polo shirts...