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Women...stop wearing these!

111 replies

Whiteworm · 21/07/2012 23:11

Right these

www.cottontraders.co.uk/womens-shoes/suede-slip-ons-ladies-comfort-fit/invt/aq10484/

Seriously they are a fucking crime. Was at a party today where one of the mums was wearing them. She may has well had a dog walker fleece on. There are more stylish slips ons out there. STOP IT!! If you don't know what frumpy is, well you do now!!

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SugarBatty · 21/07/2012 23:45

Hmmm I'm thinking RustyBear might work for cotton traders.

Devora · 21/07/2012 23:47

Nah, I'm with RustyBear. Fashion should be a fun hobby, not compulsory. I don't think any less of women who aren't interested. Come to think of it, I can barely be arsed myself.

akaemmafrost · 21/07/2012 23:49

I always wonder why those who claim to be above fashion etc and proclaim it as shallow bother to post in Style and Beauty at all.

Whenthetoadcamehome · 21/07/2012 23:51

Akaemmafrost to assure those ensnared in its sticky web that there is another way!! :o

LynetteScavo · 21/07/2012 23:51

MIL wears them.

Both of them. (My MILs that is)

Devora · 21/07/2012 23:53

I'm not saying I'm above fashion - I have a great and abiding interest in slagging off ugly shoes - I'm saying that judging other women for not having an interest is something I'm not signing up to. In the same way that I haunt the Property/DIY threads because I love nattering about interior design, and slagging off union jack cushions and pebbly shit, but I wouldn't criticise anybody who didn't much care what their house looked like. Fashion should be a way for women to express themselves, not a way for women to criticise other women.

Methe · 21/07/2012 23:55

My MIl wears fly flots

She offered to buy me some.

Whenthetoadcamehome · 21/07/2012 23:55

Well said Devora! That's exactly how I feel too.

akaemmafrost · 21/07/2012 23:57

Well I do agree about the criticising thing. I don't actually notice what others wear, too shallow and self involved perhaps Wink?

Those shoes stand alone in awfulness, they don't actually even need to be on anyones feet.

Whiteworm · 21/07/2012 23:57

Whenthetoadcamehome...ouch! Get out of bed the wrong side?? It is not about being shallow or a shallow pile of shite! When you look good, you feel good. I am not doubting her husband loves her etc. I think ultimately you should wear what you feel good in as opposed to what you would walk the dog in. Maybe she feels good in what she wears. Just can't help wonder if she always dressed that way....I doubt it.

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LynetteScavo · 22/07/2012 00:00

Methe - did you spit out your tea? Shock

Whenthetoadcamehome · 22/07/2012 00:00

Whiteworm, assuredly NOT calling you a shallow pile of shite, merely expressing that her husband wasn't. Only just got into bed and in perfectly equitable mood, honest! :o

I just think some women don't give a toss what they wear, and are genuinely comfortable, nay happy with that. And if they are, you should be for them?

RustyBear · 22/07/2012 00:00

No, I don't work for Cotton Traders, just don't like labelling people. I'm with you on the clean hair, though, whiteworm.

As for why I came to this thread, I saw it in active convos and I thought it was going to be a warning against something made with slave labour or make-up tested on animals or something like that.

Whiteworm · 22/07/2012 00:01

I was not criticising her, just thought urgh shoes, making you look frumpy! You could look fab. But have seen these terrible shoes a lot making people look lazy and frumpy!

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Methe · 22/07/2012 00:01

Coffee. Her tea is TERRIBLE!

Whenthetoadcamehome · 22/07/2012 00:01

Btw, can't stand the shoes either, wouldn't be seen dead in them, but if she likes them, then great!

LynetteScavo · 22/07/2012 00:02

Can I just say this is the Style and Beauty topic, and you have just tainted it with that link, Whiteworm.

Whenthetoadcamehome · 22/07/2012 00:03

But you were criticising her, by accusing her of giving up on her appearance and not trying to make an effort for her husband. If I overheard someone saying that about me when I genuinely liked what I wore I'd be gutted, wouldn't you?

Whiteworm · 22/07/2012 00:03

Grin whenthetoadcamehome.

Glad you hate the shoes :)

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LynetteScavo · 22/07/2012 00:07

Nobody genuinely likes these shoes in a "these look great" kind of way.

They maybe comfy, and by the front door, but seriously, no one thinks they look good in them. Do they?

LynetteScavo · 22/07/2012 00:08

But then some people probably think that about me in my Birkenstocks, but what do they know? Grin

Brandnewbrighttomorrow · 22/07/2012 00:09

I shall defend the right of any who choose to point and laugh (privately) at others horrific style choices. Doesn't make us bad people. Sense of humour failure going on in some quarters I think.

Devora · 22/07/2012 00:09

The thing is, those shoes don't even really work as letting-it-go footwear. I have a secret liking for the Hotter shoes catalogue. Don't get me wrong, I don't wear the things, but I gaze at them and sigh wistfully at the thought of what bliss it must be to just let-it-all-go, don the elasticated waist slacks and the beige latticed wide-fitting footwear, have my hair cut sensible and short and basically surrender to the loving embrace of late middle age. Not only does this government expect me to continue working for a full 17 years beyond what I expected when I entered the workforce, but I feel the pressure to continue looking fashionable and attractive at least 20 years past the time when previous generations thought, "Nah, done all that, where's me custard creams?"

So I feel envy for those women who do just not bother, as well as sneaking admiration and gratitude that someone is contesting the idea that we can all look like Madonna in our 50s.

But I also think those shoes look horribly halfway houseish, like you're trying to look quite stylish while not at all. If you're going to let it go you should REALLY let it go, I reckon.

Whiteworm · 22/07/2012 00:14

Devora. Well said. So much better than tipsy old me could have put it. :)

Loathes Crocs whilst at it, unless wearing them in the garden. Birkenstocks are fab as long as tidy feet and preferably painted (not chipped) toenails. That goes for all open toed footwear though.

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PerryCombover · 22/07/2012 00:21

I have never seen a human wear these
Nor have I seen them for sale

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