My DDs are going to be flower girls, what should I wear?

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I have a wedding to go to in September, my DDs are going to be flower girls and are wearing these dresses from John Lewis

The bride is in ivory and the bridesmaids are in these dresses. The bride has asked that I choose an outfit that will look ok mixed in with my DDs and the bridesmaids because if my DDs get nervous on the day I will have to walk down the aisle with them.
I don't want to look like I am trying to be a bridesmaid though, so what could I wear? I've only got a few months left yet and haven't seen anything I like.

I'm 31 and a size 8, small saggy boobs but decent legs. Help!

Personally, I'd go for a shift style dress with a jacket - that avoids any 'bridesmaid wannabe' connotations. Pick a similar colour to the bridesmaid dresses for the dress, and a co-ordinating jacket?

I'm thinking this sort of thing:

Dresses:

www.reissonline.com/shop/womens/dresses/bridge/fawn/

www.frenchconnection.com/product/Woman+Collections+Dresses/71YZ7/Twinkle+Lace+Dress.htm

www.jaeger.co.uk/index.cfm?page=1013&productid=630250C&productvarid=630250C-09200-12&refpage=Womens_Dresses&pagesize=500&productpage=1&viewall=true

Jackets:

www.jaeger.co.uk/index.cfm?page=1013&productid=660112C&productvarid=660112C-05500-12&refpage=Womens_Jackets&pagesize=500&productpage=1&viewall=true

www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?beginIndex=0&viewAllFlag=&catalogId=33057&storeId=12556&productId=5741377&langId=-1&sort_field=Relevance&categoryId=208526&parent_categoryId=203984&pageSize=200

Sorry I haven't been back sooner, my phone rang and I've ended up running an errand. I'll go look at those links now.

Love the Reiss dress!

Agree with shift dress. Maybe chocolate brown - coordinating but not trying to be matchy matchy? Steer clear of chiffon!

Don't worry, I couldn't be tempted to try chiffon!