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Funeral Hat Help Please

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JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 05/07/2012 14:59

Can you help me find a funeral hat?

My darling sweet funny MIL died on monday after a brief illness. We are having a short internement ceremony followed by a sort of memorial service at her church (she would have HATED a coffin on display etc.)

She always wore a hat to chapel and most of the women there will wear a hat too, so I'd like to, sort of out of respect for her as much as anything.

I intend to wear a black cotton shirtwaist dress which is faintly 50s in style.

I have long red hair. I don't want the hat to be all glam and look-at-me-ish (I do have a cute one with a veil but that would be totally not in keeping).

Can someone please find me one? I was thinking straw maybe? Oh I dunno. Not too spensive either, and I wear a lot of vintage so a second hand one's fine...

Thanks in advance...

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JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 05/07/2012 15:12

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JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 05/07/2012 15:26
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SilkStalkings · 05/07/2012 15:30

Black straw would be nice and useful in future. I have a sort of pork pie / Eliza Doolittle one and I have a couple of different hatbands I've crocheted in different colours to suit different outfits.
A quick search on Google Shopping under black straw hat points to at Asda.

SilkStalkings · 05/07/2012 15:31

And Claire's has some pretty ones.

JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 05/07/2012 15:32

Oh hello Silk - thanks for that. I really like it, and you're right: it would be useful in the future. Do you think it would look too beachy in a church?? Mind you I'm wearing a dress and not a trouser suit or anything. I wonder if Asda delivers...

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JulesJules · 05/07/2012 15:37

So sorry about your MIL.

I was going to say black straw hat as well. Or one of those little mini 50s style ones, try Etsy?

Or put hair up and put black ribbon in it?

JulesJules · 05/07/2012 15:39

Asda do deliver.

JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 05/07/2012 15:49

Thanks Jules. It has been a real shock Sad

Black ribbon would be sweet and probably what I would opt for but they're a very 'hattish' church and I'd like to simultaneously fit in AND do what she would've wanted AND do her justice, IYSWIM . Great news that Asda delivers (there isn't one for miles around).

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JulesJules · 05/07/2012 16:58

Or this one, £18 from John Lewis if you don't want a black one, & narrower brim.

JulesJules · 17/07/2012 19:17

Hope the funeral was OK, Jodie

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