i am 26, had baby 18m ago and feel like my body shape has changed, i am trying to lose weight but am a size 14 at the moment, carrying all my weight round my middle, good legs, not bad arms or boobs but awful mid section! arranged a night of drinks and food in a few weeks with some unii friends (none of whom have had children) so need something to flatter me please, was thinking black skinny jeans with killer heels and a pretty top...can anyone help? ps i have short blonde (well cut!) hair.