I think you hit a wrong note with me, we pulled DS out of a school as it was crap. The school/parents were more interested in the parents social life, balls, tea parties, events, concerts than that of the kids education. The sports day was the epitomy of 'showyoffness' by the parents, it was so competitive both in what you wore, who you sat with and who won the parents races it made us furious.
We once heard a parent leaving saying 'top result for the family, kids won 3 races each and wife won hers too. wha hey . Tosser.
When did education/school become about the parents?