Still haven't ordered anything.
You know what the problem is?
All my friends have a proper wedding and engagement ring. Proper traditional stuff. And some big rocks among them too. And Eternity rings. And special lovely rings they got for their 40th etc etc.
And I want to have a proper grown up ring like the big girls too. I REALLY do. 15 years, a wedding, two children and some good and bad times - I want a ring, damnit.
But I don't actually like those uber traditional wedding / engagement / eternity combos that you can get in every jewellery shop in every high street. They are lovely, but they're not me.
But then anything I do like I might as well spend £30 in Monsoon and have done. I can't seem to find something special that I like and that looks like it's a nice, real ring too.
It shouldn't matter whether other people know it's a real, proper, grown-up ring or not. It really shouldn't. But it does a bit.
Or another way of looking at it is, there is no point spending £300 on a ring that might as well be from Accessorize.