Second link should have been to my sequins, sorry. Agree the camel is a bit of an odd colour but wondered if it might work...
bloss I have no idea what size to try the the skinnies; the measurements on net-a-porter seem to bear no relationship to my figure at all! Usually a 10 or sometimes a 12. can you or anybody advise please? Ta.
I think the thing that's hardest about the daily grind is what roary mentioned about seeing other people who seem to do it effortlessly. I suspect it's important not to make comparisons of that nature, but I also find it very hard not to
I haven't had a regular salary since my mat leave for DS1 stopped (mid-2004). We also have separate accounts and DH pays me a lump sum once a month, out of which I pay some of the bills, some of the food, clothes for all of us etc etc. and if it's running out I ask for more. But somehow the regular payment aspect makes it feel less like his money. Oh, and I have his card details saved at Ocado 
I can't help with a code, sorry madame
Now, should I check out the blog that's been linked to or empty the washing machine...