Ahhh, Fleecy. Your DH and mine are obviously exchanging notes. 
Bonsoir and 40Denier I totally agree with those who think it's about your natural tidiness. I think some people are just naturally orderly and tidy, by which I mean they just sort of DO it without thinking about it, and tend to be always busybusy doing things in the house. If you are one of those people I can see how it would make you crazy to have a cleaner. (which doesn't mean, of course, that you don't resent the drudgery, just that the cost/benefit analysis is heavily weighed against strangers cleaning) My mom is a Tidy Mom and although she has always had a cleaner it has been fortnightly and to do the heavy jobs. She is also constantly finding new cleaners because they don't meet her standards! She thinks our housekeeper plan is hilarious, and points out that she has thought we have needed one for years.
I suppose the point is like Cakey and others I couldn't care less who sees my knickers. I also have no views on how towels are folded, I just want someone to do it so I don't have to. Ideally I'd like someone who can take the initiative to reorganize messy drawers, sort the laundry, notice that the bath mat is grubby, etc etc.
Bunny as you may remember Aurelia was our first choice before it was stolen (boo, hiss) and was on the list for DS.
Bloss I was chuckling about your description of your DH's work mates. You should see our black tie dinners, of which we have a fair few- fine for the men but the women are DIRE. I also like to wear edgy things on purpose as I overhear people tut tutting about miniskirts at lunch.
Roma your arms are FAB and you are as glam as I thought. DS pretty cute too!
In fact, I think (aside from our perfection) we could construct a Perfect Woman with Roma's arms, LTEC's legs, Vin's lovely lips, Bloss's swingy hair....who knows what season she would be though!