Blossoming - TY for the lovely compliment that I am the body double for the Asos model
Alas, same height, but at LEAST a size larger!
Fritzi - Point taken about the maxi. I will resist. Have bought a whole load of Xmas pressies, and am about to spend £350 insurance excess on the car tomorrow so really shouldn't be spending anyway...but I may consder those ASOS grey wdges I linked to. they are the right colour for my stripey dress (and others), plus they are only 3 inches high, and all the other wedges I can find seem to be at least an inch higher than that which puts me in 'Land of the Giants' territory.
Mrsj - Your story about poor DD and her permanently wakeful doll made me 
Roary - You both look gorgeous in that photo.
Ladies - thank you for the doll suggestions. I am taken with the Corolle and emailed suggestion to DH. They have a nice selection dont they? Great to find something that bridges the gap between a 'baby' doll that DD was adamant that she didn't want, and the scary Bratz style things that seem to be everywhere. (Apologies to those who have Bratz loving DD !!)
Roma - Hope you are ok!...and Libra...fingers crossed for you!