I absolutely acknowledge that my perspective might be skewered here by the fact that my ex-husband and I split up and that was it. We agreed on the nights that we would have the children and we stuck to it like glue.
On the very rare occasions that my ex needs to swap, I will accommodate it
But I would never ask him to be honest. I’d rather make whatever I need Work work then be reliant on his Goodwill.
So this is completely alien to me.
Very much at the Dating stage.
His ex has a crisis with her family.
And he needs to cancel on me with less than an hour notice.
The first time it happened I greeted my teeth and smiled
It’s happened this evening again and I’ve gotta be honest. I can’t even speak to him. I’m livid.
If his child needed him, I would expect him to put his fork down and get in the car and go.
But this was very much a her problem.
And the first person that she’s called is him for assistance.
And he’s jumped to it
It’s almost as if he’s afraid to say no to her.
I don’t even know if I can be bothered to have the conversation or whether to just wrap it up.
He seems to think that this is perfectly acceptable behaviour and he’ll see me next week 😳