YCBS, I've been concerned that you thought I was being rude to you on the 'why' post on this board. I really wasn't, and I posted a reply saying that the 'cake or death' thingy was a quote from an Eddy Izzard sketch that someone else started on that post. It never occured to me that it might be construed in any other way, because I knew what context I meant it in.
Anyway, I probably look like mad stalker lady now, so I will be off to name change and never be heard of again.
But sorry if I upset you. NOT intentional, and not directed at you at all.