So my SS 16 (17 next March if that matters) had got his first girlfriend 2 months ago. He's very loved up and me and his dad have been really excited for him gave him money for date ms etc and asked lots of questions we are lucky he's mostly open and happily to talk.
She's been over to our house about 4/5 times and stayed the whole day Saturdays, had tea etc and we've played a few games aa a family here. Overall we like her and are letting it happily play out from a distance.
Now 3 weeks away his mum and stepdad and the girlfriends mum decided they could both sleep over together at both houses pretty much whenever, so of course they have been attached at the hip since.
Issue is I've been very open I don't think staying overnight is something that should be happening yet... not it's not all about sex I know you don't have to be in a bed at night to do that but it's more I just feel it's a lot at 16 to be with someone this intensely. Dad and I both drive and are happy to take her home late ish so 11/12 max but I feel it's coming to a head where he will not stay as much because if this... his dad will allow the staying but is backing me as I really don't want it.
Opinions please? What would you guys do / suggest? Just for info SS Is lovely and understands and hasn't demanded anything but odd things have been said and I can see it coming