Not quite sure this is the right category, but we are a blended family set up so perhaps someone has been in the same boat!
I’ve been with my partner for several years, and we have an 18m old, he has 2 teenage girls from a previous marriage.
my issue is the in-laws - they still have photos of his wedding with the ex up in their house! I’ve only been upstairs in their house once, but it was like a shrine.. photos of the wedding and lots of their old family pics. I felt so upset when I saw them, also embarrassed. My OH won’t say anything, says it’s up to them and I can’t hide the past. I appreciate that but I find it disrespectful.
they are lovely people, pleasant to be around, but I can’t help but get upset when I think about it. I’m not asking for there to be any pics of me, just how about not a load of the ex?
also, they have a so many photos up of the teenage girls, when I was last over they were framing another 2.. they only have one of my son. My OH again says I’m being silly, they adore him, but how can I not feel put out about this?
AIBU? It’s their house, I can’t say anything. I don’t really want my son to go over when he’s older and ask why there are photos of dad with someone else and not me.
they have access to all photos I take of him from an app, so that’s not an excuse. He’s younger I know, but to be adding more of the 2 girls and not him? Am I being overly sensitive?