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Would my income have any impact on my step child?

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Sheisamum · 23/08/2022 20:25

Hi, my husband had a child from another marriage who is currently living abroad. He intends to bring him over to the UK at some point before the child finishes school. I would love for him to get a bursary or something similar from a reputable school. My salary however is way above the limits set for this type of financial help, my husband’s salary alone would probably make him eligible for a means tested bursary or the likes. Of course, one could say our combined income is high and would disqualify us but this is not my child and I therefore have no financial responsibility towards his education. Does anyone know how step children classify in this case? Would institutions look at combined income? Or would they look at the income from the birth parent only? In all honesty, I don’t intend to contribute to this child’s education either since I will have my own to support and would not be able to afford it.

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Littlepaws18 · 23/08/2022 21:08

I might have misinterpreted your post and if I have it wrong I'm sorry.

Your SS currently doesn't live in this country but will soon. So I assume he knows hardly anyone and doesn't know the area etc. you want to send him to a private school as soon as he get here? And you want a nursery to fund it, without any financial assistance from yourself. I am assuming you want him to board.

Are you rewriting a modern take on Cinderella???!!! Poor boy, coming to live in a country he is not familiar with, going to be shipped off, no time to jobs with dad. Evil step mother!!!

Get this idea out of your head it's cruel and selfish.

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OnlyFoolsnMothers · 01/09/2022 20:21

If he has two parents able to afford private school then don’t go down the bursary route!

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