The mother of DSS is bitter and angry about my mere existence. She uses DSS as a pawn. DH is at breaking point.
We have EOW arrangement, but that is often met with changes, alterations or just general DSS doesn't want to come. I genuinely feel that DSS feels he has to say he doesn't want to come to please his mum because she hates me and his dad so much. It's impossible to make plans because we never know if DSS is going to turn up or not. Either on our weekend or our non contact one. It's just exhausted and the abuse is wearing us both thin. Is there ever a way to cope when someone hates everything about you so much?!