Do you remember my 18 yr old dss was involved with a 28 yr old Thai girl?

[Carmenere]

Well guess what? He came back from the channel Islands yesterday because he had to register for college today. Instead of coming home and telling us how he got on, he ignored his phone all day and then it turns out he has gone up to London on the piss with this Thai girl who just happens to be in London and he is staying in her friend house

Ting Tong?

Sounds as though she's leading him astray.

And I say this as the mother of four boys.

LOL, let's hope she doesn't have bollocks as well...

Will he still be able to register now?

Oh he is happily being led astray, dp is really pissed off because he lied and wouldn't answer the phone all day which is exactly the type of behaviour which led him to fail EVERYTHING in his exams this year hence the college course not university

It is really, really tough having a headstrong teenager who thinks he knows everything and then happily expects us to pick up the pieces when everything goes to shit

He did actually register but he then lied about where he was going, which is just childish.

And there's B all you can do about it.

Who is funding him?

Well he has saved up a grand over the summer so he thinks he is loaded.
I suggested to dp today that he needs some ground rules and parameters for this year as even though he thinks he is mature he is actually very immature and has difficulty with application and knowing his limitations