Interested in opinions please.
Currently TTC. Just in process of buying a standard 3-bed in UK where we have master, a reasonable double and a slightly smaller 3rd.
SKIDs are SS11 and SD8. They are scheduled to stay fri-Sun every other WE-reality is that SS often cancels now to hang out with mates and we see him on sat only, he stays overnight every couple of months.
They share a room at BMs who is the resident parent, although there is some indication that she’s contemplating moving to a 3-bed so the kids can have their own rooms.
I want to reserve the larger (double) for new baby, set the 3rd room up as a spare with double but have a pull out bed for visitors (so SD will have spare for herself when she stays and pullout when her brother stays so he’ll have the double, or however they want to work it out).
AIBU? I think OH will expect the SKIDs to have their own rooms until baby arrives and requires own room. I don’t know that removing a room from either child once DC arrives will do much for the family dynamics...