@ALLIS0N - nowhere does he say exw sacrificed work/personal time or anything else! What they're doing is called co-parenting
Well of course he didn’t mention it. Because like 90% of fathers, especially those who are NRP, he totally takes it for granted .
If the OP was caring for the child 50% of the time he wouldn’t be paying child support. As no doubt he would have listed it his op , along with things like paying school fees. Which I assume is in fact for his child and not “support” her gives his ex.
And it may be called co parenting but it doesn’t mean that she’s not doing the lions share of the work.
And I don’t really see why it’s relevant who wanted the divorce.
When OP says that he helped his ex with her house move, again I assume that his child was also moving house.
And that he helped with the car problems because his ex uses the car to transport his child.
It’s interesting to see how many people seem to think that the default for a male parent is 0% input and for a female parent it’s 100% .
So if a man pays for his kids school uniform, he’s a hero. But if a woman pays for half of it, buys it, labels it , picks it off the floor, washes and irons it hundreds of times - well that’s no big deal is it? Not even worth mentioning.
As I said above, I’d be delighted if my husbands ex did as much for him and the OPs ex does for him.