I light of a recent thread, keen to understand how much support I should give my ex, or if I'm giving too much - both financially and in other ways.
Have 1 child.
Been separated over a decade.
Financial-
Pay above the CSA agency specified amount.
Pay private education.
Assist in emergencies.
Pay for holiday/weekends away.
School trips.
Clothes, uniforms, school supplies
Gifts/parties etc.
Other ways
Alternative weekends
Extra during holiday
Happy to swap weekends when needed, add extra weekends if needed
Help moving house
Generally if ex is in need she will call me for help - car broken down etc.
Someone to talk to when in need, give advice extra
Very much on the same path when it comes to parenting etc.
Is this the norm ? Or am I blurring the lines/being taken advantage of?
Live currently with my wife of 3 years - no kids.
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How much support should I give my ex?
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tobeworriedaboutthis · 17/01/2018 08:47
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