hey was just looking for some advice, my stepdaughter is nearly 6 and I'm really starting to struggle with her, ive been living with her father since she was 1 so always been a constant in her life but she's so difficult I mean very demanding and if she's not happy no-one can be she dominates the relationship, extremely short tempered and lashes out, and very protective over her father i cant go near him half the time now without her kicking off, i dont get it, but he doesn't seem to be able to see this?? or somehow thinks it's me winding her yo when genuinely she just starts out of nowhere, and recently she's started to get really hurtfull being spiteful with comments and repeated hitting and kicking at me witch I don't understand cause she's never been like this before only the last few months?? any ideas I thiugh initially it was because were expecting our own child but then realised it had started before this but that defiantly has made the situation worse, Help please!!