Was chatting today with my DH, DSD17 and DSD10 about little DD and somehow it came up would we have any more children, DH said yes and DSD17 almost jumped out of her chair and said 'yes!! cant wait' while punching the sky. I was so so happy and touched to hear her reaction and am sitting here later reflecting and feeling so grateful that they clearly feel part of the family and loved and included and that has been so important to me since I met them.
I am just so glad and wanted to share to give stepparents in tough spot some hope and reassurance, these moments are totally worth hard work and any awkward/tough times inbetween . xx