Just venting

[DooWhaaDiddy]

Stbx has just said he won't take our DS (4) with him this weekend with his dd (10) to his mums as that's "her time" with him, DS misses her and I need a break. I'm not surprised though, his second family have always definitely come second. Still, at least I don't have to see him turn into a twat eow.

Venting, pass the

Why doesn't dd come to the house? Is it a one off? Sounds difficult.

Vent away. Will he have his ds on his own as well? Going off the tone of your post I doubt it.

Because we are going through a break up, and mostly due to his Jekyll & Hyde behaviour when it comes to the dsc. no boundaries at all on the weekends and I may as well just be a house servant. Also accused of over stepping but when I took a back seat I didn't care about them.

Honestly, 9 years I've been in these kids life (dss is odd doing his own thing now) and I don't blame them at all, they are good kids but when you have an arse of a H that turned into a twat Eow and all rules go out the window it is hard to separate the resentment. I would have loved to have taken the good with the bad....you know, all the mundane parenting shit and also then enjoyed some of the good but was never allowed to. I only got the mundane shit and resentment

SM's can never win!