hi, i have a sd who is 11 yrs old. we have always had a good relationship and i always used to get on with her mum. that was until my dp slept with her behind my back whilst i was pregnant with our ds. with that done i maintained the closeness with my sd and she will only talk to me with her problems about her mother. i always make sure i tell my dp everything that i am told by my sd as i feel its important for him to know as her father.and never run my sd mum down as this is not fair. my dp has a go at me because his dd wont talk to him about her problems and now i feel like i cant be there for my sd without causing problems for my dp which in turn is not fair on my ds... anyone got any suggestions on what i should do? e.g keep talking to my sd about her problems or just letting dp lead himself into darkness with his dd situation? thanks X