A bit long winded I am afraid...
My husband had a previous marriage and has 2 children already. The older of the two has always had behavioural problems and been very aggressive. 5 years ago he attacked his younger sister (he was 8, she 5) and my now husband pulled him off and carried him upstairs to his room. The son then told school his father had hurt him when he grabbed him so social services were called and child protection plan was put in place! when the case was reviewed they said they were keeping the younger sibling on review as they were worried about the older sibling's violence. Since then, he and his wife divorced, she moved to another part of the county and social services have been involved off and on about the boy's behaviour. My husband and I married and have a 2 year old girl (he is a fantastic father).
My worry is that I am pregnant again and just had my first midwife visit. She asked about other siblings and I had to give their names. She said they like to create a 'family group' on their systems. Is all of this going to show up? Will social services get involved with us?? Both my husband and I have professional jobs which involve contact with children and have both had full CRB checks done.