Unreasonable or not...

[Pickles4005]

Does your OH do the decent thing and discuss with you first whether it's ok for his children to come and stay or say yes to EW and tell you afterwards?

DH did get a little better over the years, but there were still times when he'd arrange extra access and 'forget' to tell me til the 11th hour, by which time it was too late/pointless to argue.

Isn't that so damn annoying?!