Having discovered this forum, I have read and sympathised with a lot of posters, and been shocked by the really difficult time some of you are having. I'm now thinking mine are not so bad, I never knew them as children, and judging by some of your situations, I'm grateful for it! So, if we could get past the emotional and financial stranglehold on my DH (aka Disney Dad), things would be fine, we probably never will, but hey...you can't have everything!