Dsd (almost 11) has a tablet, periodically her parents will give it the once over check that all is ok no dodgy porn websites etc. Tonight dh found messages to her mum saying how I was horrible called me some rude names and that dh is too scared to stand up to me.
Dh is certainly not afraid to stand up to me, should we disagree it's never done whilst dsd is around.
I think what I'm pissed off about is that dsd mum hasn't pulled her up on the rude name calling. Neither I nor dh would condone her calling anyone names.
Just feel that all the lengths I go to for our 'family' is bloody pointless!!