Things you'd really like to say to parents but can't.

[Tiggywinklespinny]

As dsd mother it should be YOU instilling a sense of worth and confidence in her, not weeping all over the place because your relationships don't work out. Or telling her she's a cow and a bitch.

She's at times difficult because both you and her dad have failed to create boundaries, she doesn't feel safe. You can't work her around your cocktail hour and I loathe everything you stand for.

I don't care what you think about me, I care only that dsd is given a safe home, secure boundaries and a feeling she is loved. You got pregnant on purpose, desperate for a baby and now your baby is almost a teen you can't be arsed.

Sort. Your. Shit. Out.

Mine use their fingers too
And eat with their mouths wide open. Table manners are 'posh' apparently and unnecessary because they don't have a table at home and eat off their laps in front of the telly every night!!!!

talisa dp's ex hasn't been allowed over the threshold since either!! she tried to step in uninvited on wednesday and had the door firmly closed to so she couldn't!

Kaluki do they indicate you have a butler, a driver and room for a pony

What really pisses me off is her focus on what other people think of her. Her whole life is about 'keeping up with the jones', but then she allows her kids to be the most ignorant ill behaved, ill mannered little scrotes going and expects everyone to love them!! Dp's family have had nothing to do with the kids til i came on the scene as they couldn't stand how rude and obnoxious they were and that neither dp nor exw did anything about it. (
In fairness i have watched dp try to reign them in and exw to totally undermine it and shut it down so i don't blame him for giving up in someways.) but not sure it sinks in to her think skull that she is making herself look an absolute arse with how her kids behave! Trailer trash would be too classy iyswim

Of course! I am 'stuck up' and 'posh because I make my kids brush their teeth, have baths, eat with cutlery and say please and thankyou!!
Still I would rather be posh than a lazy dirty chav who treats her kids like possessions!
Funny thing is we have never met face to face and we live in different towns so I've no idea where these daft opinions of me come from!!!

Ah well I'm the opposite you see. I'm a chavvy, cockney single parent desperate to trap DP so I can fleece him for every penny. Despite the fact that we both worked full time and I earned more than him....

Before we moved in together, she tried to stop the sdc coming to mine for sleepovers because my house 'wasn't in a very nice area'

I may not be well off, but I've got more class that you'll ever have, lady.

wow she walked into your home!!!! Never ever Gona happen here!

Alita - yup walked clean I. Off the street, never knocked or anything!

Talisa - projecting her own agenda maybe??

Oh god no. She's a very professional, middle class woman. Shame that doesn't preclude her being a cunt

If you can afford a new convertible and a personalised reg you can afford to heat enough water for your children to shower all day if they want, so let them do so at least once a day.

Stop sending them here just to use the shower.

You can't afford to put anything towards your daughter's school trip but can afford to go out on the piss with your mates while we struggle. Get your priorities in the right order and accept some responsibility when it comes to your own child!