my ds1 and my dss dont like each other at all, tend to just avoid each other, my ds 11 is very serious and brainy (and knows it) prefers his own company, very shy, awaiting diognosis for aspergers if that has any bearing. dss is almost 9, only child syndrome, very emotional ans also prefers own company.
they clash.
up untill now its been ok, tend to just avoid each other.
today iv got to pick up dsc after school as dp is working late, got there and was told by dp's ex dss want coming.
when got home dp rang and said his ex has been on phone saying dss doesnt want to b here as he says my ds bullies him.
I dont beleive that for a second, I know my boys faults and sometimes he is a bugga but equally dss does similar things back.
dp say hes fuming , says he will talk wen he gets home.
hes so disney dad, hes not getting on so well with my ds lately and I know all blame will b piled at my ds door.
not looking for an answer, just hand holding cause I know this is all gonna blow up.
me and dp just came bak of a mini break, time alone to cement our relationship, came bak feeling so secure, now this, I could cry 