But you can't help worrying, can you?
DSS has recently moved, with his mum, back into their own house. Mum has MH issues, including hoarding, and as a result they have not been able to live in 'their' house for a year, instead all piling in to Granny's 2 bedroom. At least when they were at Granny's, though, she made sure DSS was reasonably clean - he is already starting to look dirty, hair greasy etc. He's here with us 3 weekends so we make sure he is clean here, it's just very nerve-wracking worrying about what he's having to cope with.