Dss is 3.5 years of age spends 3days with us 4 with his mum. When at our house he is with us all the time but when he his with his mum due to work he is with dh mum fro 7 till 6pm at night 2 of dss mums days.
Anyways for a while now both dh, exp and her partner and I have all noticed his behavior changing. When he playing last night he has a big truck sort of like mechano but for a younger ages that you have to screw things together anyways noticed that all the bolts were in an exact line same with nuts then all four wheels were stacked.
Also when playing with cars and for example if we need to go out if you attempt to clean up he takes a hairy fit and cries because he says he needs to park them up and he needs to do it his way.
Another example is when putting shoes on be has to pick a step to sit on!
Is this some sort of control thing he has and is their anything we could do to help him? Or is this just normal for a three year old ? He's a very bright little boy but it is tiring when their is 20 cars needing to be parked up if you are ever in a hurry:)