Hi there everyone, Just thought I'd share a positive situation with you all. It was my birthday yesterday, my husband was away with work so I spent the evening with friends. My sd who is now 7 (some of you will know all the ups and downs we have had and all the times when I have struggle ..and still do ) wrote me card with no prompting from my husband and it read...."I hope you have a special birthday and I wish I was here" which I thought was lovely. She also rang me last night and we had a little chat it was really nice.