My 6 year old cried at the result.
I said to him the most important thing was to try as hard as you possibly can. Sometimes you can't win even if you do, but its how much effort you put in and what you learn from the experience that matter. Ultimately not the fact you missed in that one moment.
And thats just it. Southgate being manager is important and it changes the dynamics. Ultimately i think he will take the heat from the press and it will be 'Southgate's demons come back to haunt him' as a narrative rather than 'Rashford fucked it'. And thats the tone Southgate will take.
Personally i think if you are a 19 year old its easier to be the one to 'cock it up' in some ways because of that. The framing is different. Southgate can take it on the chin. He has for 25 years.
Its not the magical fairy ending but its still one of redemption. And these lads will have other tournaments. And maybe penalties. It may be the making of them like Southgate.
Its not the same story or situation for many reasons.