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Mumsnet users tell Dove how they introduce a self-care routine to teenagers

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EllieMumsnet · 19/10/2018 08:59

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Before puberty hits, body odour isn't really a thing - ah remember the joy of rarely washing hair, not thinking about the comparative benefits of soap and bodywash, and being utterly ignorant of the verb 'to exfoliate'? - but all too soon that comes to an end. Trying to introduce a self-care routine for the first time to your children can be a tricky subject to navigate, which is why Dove would love to know your experiences and tips for how to have the conversation with your teenagers and how you went about picking products for them e.g. deodorant.

Here’s what Dove has to say: “At Dove we know that you want to give the best support to your teenagers as they go through the emotional, physical and hormonal changes of puberty. It can be a sensitive time and your relationship with them goes through changes too. They still need their parents’ care – just a different kind of care to when they were younger, one that spans both practical help and emotional support. We are interested in hearing how you approach conversations about introducing a self-care routine with your teenagers, especially when it comes to deodorants and body odour.”

Did you have conversations with your DC as and when body and hormonal changes were occuring? Perhaps you did a lot of research into trying to find the right products for your child to use? If you found any great products, such as the perfect deodorant, please do share them! What age was your child when you first started to have conversations about self-care with them? How did you bring it up?

However you introduced a self-care routine to your DC and whatever products you bought/used, share them on the thread below and you’ll be entered into a prize draw where one winner will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
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Mumsnet users tell Dove how they introduce a self-care routine to teenagers
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sofieellis · 08/11/2018 20:01

I bought books about puberty for my kids and we discuss the importance of looking after our hygiene. I am keen to educate them in cruelty free products and also try to always choose vegetarian/vegan items, as I want them to consider the ethics of their shopping items.

tanyavt · 08/11/2018 23:12

DD is really aware of herself- ensures she showers (and if she doesn't regularly, I throw her in there!) - DS1 likes to smell and look good & DS2 is a lazy toad and needs to be forced to get in the shower... am still having to stand in the bathroom to make sure that he washes behind his ears (and other hard to reach places ;-) )

noynoyavery · 09/11/2018 12:02

I drag them out of bed and tell them they need a shower now, really though it is just gradual and they start to want to look nicer as well. As for "Exfoliation is not "self care" for some it really is, it can combat acne but for me I have Psoriasis i need to exfoliate because my skin grows faster than it should If I do not Exfoliate I end up with scales all over, I know this can also be the case for many sufferers.

mkt13 · 09/11/2018 22:53

Using yummy smelling body washes helps, as does gentle reminders

hatesdiets · 10/11/2018 19:11

I didn't have a conversation with my son, he was taught the importance of washing himself from a young age, when he started puberty I just asked him which deodorant he wanted when we were shopping one day, I didn't want to make a thing of it just made sure it wasn't an aerosol so that he could put it in his bag for school. As his skin got more greasy I would buy appropriate skin washes and just let him know they were for him. My main problem is the amount of time he spends in the bathroom, he can be in there for nearly an hour

EllieMumsnet · 21/11/2018 22:56

Congratulations to sofieellis for winning the £300 voucher

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