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Mine was that they can never have enough love and cuddles. Whatever else you do wrong, get that bit right!!

Make your children portable. By that my sil meant, that having children shouldn’t stop you from travelling and doing what you normally do.
It was sound advice as my girls have covered 5 continents and are 6 and 8 years old. They love coming away with us, and are now experts at airports and airlines, no matter how long the flight. They also like coming on the train and explore new places with us.
Best education ever.

Not to worry about things you can’t change

Don't try to be perfect. Definitely my biggest failing as a new mum.

Don't talk over your child - make space for them to speak.

I heard this from a mum who brought her son to a SALT as he wasn't talking properly, and the therapist pointed out that she'd been talking over him the whole time, asking questions and filling in the answers rather than waiting for him to come out with it in his own time.

Since then I've been careful to wait and let my children respond to me when I ask something instead of filling in the answer. I find that way they are more likely to say something I hadn't expected or tell me something I didn't notice.

My parents do this talking-over with my kids and it drives me nuts. If you ask a question, let them answer it! The endless prompting is only interrupting their processing of the conversation and turning it into a monologue.

Comparison is the thief of joy. I don't care what other families have, or what things their DC can do. I care about what we have, and how special my DC are.

Always give them an honest/truthful answer to a question if you can, not a child answer.

Know that what you say and do will set an example for this child's patterns of responses for the future 'Monkey see, monkey do'!.

Choose your battles wisely.

Always make time to spend with them and listen to what they say if they are worried about something.

There will always be someone who disagrees with your parenting methods so ignore everyone else and be the parent that you want to be - regardless of anyone else.

As a child I never felt that I could talk to my parents about anything personal as I found it embarrassing so I always tell my great niece to talk to Mummy & Daddy about anything & as she gets older hopefully I will be able to teach her to learn from my mistakes of not confiding in my parents

Trust my gut

Trust your own advice

Not really received any advice i found out what works best for me all on my own, i have given advice tho

best advice I have had as a parent is

Always believe your child!

There's no perfect model or magic answer. So trust your instincts and relax a bit.....

Trust your own instincts

try not to take it all personally ( teen angst!!) x

Trust your instincts - you are the person who knows your child best

Ignore everyone else's advice !

Don't get too caught up in the little things, it all blows over and it will all work out fine

Only take advice from those you feel have the same attitude towards their children as you

Trust your instincts.
#mumpower

Give your kids attention! That's what they want/need and will get it by behaving badly if they don't get enough by being good.