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EmmaMumsnet · 28/09/2017 11:37

Thinking ahead to a time when you will no longer be here is undoubtedly not a pleasant thought. The majority of us plan other big life events such as birthdays, weddings, baby showers and/or anniversaries down to a tee, however when it comes to funerals very few of us have detailed plans in place. If there's something in particular you have in mind, whether it’s something beautiful, something personal, or even something humorous, Co-op Funeralcare would like to know.

Here’s what David Collingwood, Head of Operations for Co-op Funeralcare has to say: “Funerals are very much about personal choice and reflecting the personality and interests of an individual. This is becoming increasingly evident through the growth we’ve seen in people choosing to pre-plan their own ceremonies using a funeral plan.”

Do you have a specific piece of poetry that you want read out by a certain someone? Maybe you’d request that all of your friends and family turn up in fancy dress? Or perhaps you already have in mind a certain song that will put a smile on everyone’s face...Monty Python’s ‘Always Look on the Bright Side of Life’ and Frank Sinatra’s ‘My Way’ are popular songs requested for funerals!

Co-op Funeralcare would like to know what your funeral wishes are, so please share them below and all who comment will be entered into a prize draw, where one lucky MNer will win a £300 voucher or their choice (from a list).

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TracyKNixon · 29/09/2017 04:20

I don't really want anything formal - I would want people to wear colours and celebrate my life rather than mourn my death. I would want to be buried with my family.

EmilyK83 · 29/09/2017 07:17

I haven't yet thought about it a massive amount! I'd like it to be a celebration of my life, though, rather than a sombre affair - and I'd like my guests to wear purple as it's my favourite colour!

I'm toying with the idea of donating my body to medical research, but I'm still unsure...

AngelwingsPetlamb · 29/09/2017 07:28

I would like a humanist ceremony and then a cremation. The coffin will be cardboard or wicker and no- one will need to wear black. It will be a celebration of my life with all its ups and downs.

bubbleybooboo · 29/09/2017 07:32

We lost our youngest little boy three years ago aged three. His ashes are in a memory bear.

Ive told my partner that i would like to be burried holding his memory bear. I would also love for people to not be sad but to be happy that im back with my little man which is something thats changed the way i feel about dying. It used to scare me so much the thought of it buit since he passed it makes me feel better about it knowing ill be back with him.

We have our wishes wrote down and have both signed them. We dont have a proper funeral plan or anything in place yet.

vonniebab2 · 29/09/2017 07:36

I have talked about my wishes to my partner, I want a very low key funeral no flowers no announcement in the paper no memorial stone just a simple service and ask that family avoid wearing black!

Ferryfairy · 29/09/2017 07:51

Humanist celebrant, no singing, but predictable ritual - isn't that the point? Everyone should know what to expect

007hel · 29/09/2017 07:53

I haven't really but any thought into this, but I'd like to think it will be paid for by me beforehand.....the details/arrangements would be left for those behind i believe it's their personal way of saying goodbye and remembering.

123hartley123 · 29/09/2017 07:54

CHURCH SERVICE TO CELEBRATE MY LIFE , CREMATORIUM , ASHES SCATTERED ITS SIMPLE

picklemepopcorn · 29/09/2017 07:56

I'm a Christian and would like a church funeral. There are some hymns I love, like 'the day thou gavest Lord is over'. I don't like waste and pollution, so I'd want a low impact funeral- wicker or card coffin. I don't want anyone to feel obliged to visit my grave, so perhaps a woodland or meadow would be best.

I'm thinking of pre planning and paying for it, but with the specification that if my family need to change anything then they absolutely can. Their wishes will be more important than mine!

I've had the conversation with my two young adult sons as well. They want to be cremated and put into a fire work! I hope it is never my responsibility to arrange it!

I went to a wonderful funeral- very traditional- of an elderly lady. She had been in the heart of her community for many years. The sense was that of a life well lived and properly ended. It was very moving.

Auntiedahlia · 29/09/2017 07:59

Something quick and lots of alcohol afterwards

Aminathan2017 · 29/09/2017 08:03

Id like it if my life was celebrated. A big party.

IonaAilidh11 · 29/09/2017 08:07

i wont be here so my family can do what they feel fitting

AWholeLottaRosie · 29/09/2017 08:14

I don’t want anything wacky, I’ve never been a “look at me” person, something fairly quiet and low-key would suit.
I’d like the Fleetwood Mac version of Songbird to be played and there’s a beautiful reading about a ship nearing a shore that would be very apt too.

Yaracuy · 29/09/2017 08:17

My will is a simple one. Cremation and my ashes to the sea.

AnimalAddict · 29/09/2017 08:22

I want to be cremated, apart from that I don't really mind.

2014newme · 29/09/2017 08:23

I'd like a mighty shindig with plenty of drinks flowing and happy memories being shared. And lots of beautiful flowers because I love floral art.

footdust · 29/09/2017 08:26

My funeral wishes are to leave enough money for my family to celebrate my life how they want to and not in a way that I dictate to them. I'll be dead and won't have a clue. My funeral will not be for me, it will be for those who mourn me (hopefully), so they should choose.

mo3733 · 29/09/2017 08:30

i really want it to be as painless as possible for my daughters and a very quick no fuss ceremony followed by a massive family party to celebrate my life

janeyf1 · 29/09/2017 08:33

To be honest I wouldn't want a fuss or anything expensive because I would hate it to be a burden on family. Just something low key. As long as I am buried as close to my parents as possible, then that is all I can ask for

feefeegabor · 29/09/2017 08:43

I really don't want any kind of funeral. I would be happy to be burnt in a cardboard box in the back garden - save the kids all that wasted money.

phillie1 · 29/09/2017 08:44

Church funeral, and ashes scattered on Mont Vallon in Meribel, France

happysouls · 29/09/2017 08:47

I don't want a funeral, I don't want a casket...what a waste of wood...I'd like to be stuck in a cardboard box and burned and then scattered in some woods somewhere. Absolutely no religion whatsoever.

Doilooklikeatourist · 29/09/2017 08:48

I want a wicker coffin. Lots of flowers and a simple ceremony in a crematorium
No hymns , no readings
I just want the funeral director to say something like
Tourist was a lovely woman
Moving on ...
The music I want is
Club Tropicana by Wham
Let it go from Frozen ( so everyone can sing along )

SSCRASE123 · 29/09/2017 08:55

I've always thought that I wanted to be buried next to my dad but as time goes on I don't want to burden my kids with feeling like they need to visit a grave so thinking now to be cremated and have ashes scattered on some far flung beach.

AR2012 · 29/09/2017 08:55

Traditional burial following my religious guidance. Hopefully laid to rest in the same cemetery my father was.