to want to scream and shout at somebody else's mother!

[Dawndonna]

Try to get it all out.
I read my the text on ds2s phone. I have an agreement with him whereby this can happen because he is AS and has been in serious danger before.

Turns out that all the talks about contraception we've had have gone out of the window, she's on the pill but won't take extra precautions and now she's late.
(Yes she's been on antibiotics and other medication).
Ds has just started A levels, is easily manipulated etc. After much shouting discussion, I agreed that they could still see one another but on sensible terms. Rang her Mum to try to talk sensibly and it's all my fault, I have invaded his privacy, there's nothing wrong with him, I should let them see each other every night if they choose. I apparently have a crap relationship with my son because he didn't tell me.
Aaaaaaaargghh my head is exploding.

Maryz, and the odd person generally has toddlers...

Yes stranded I did suggest std testing, not because I feel the girl in this is necessarily sleeping around anymore than the boy but because they have both had unprotected sex and seemingly thought nothing of it (don't think either of them are neccesarily to blame here) so may not be the first time for either or both of them. It's in both their interests to know they're safe and then use proper protection in future, surely?