Sorry to cross-post, but would those of you with children with Asperger's tell me whether your child would behave like this? It's the compulsive transgression thing in particular.
I'm guessing not, as my idea is that Asperger's respects rules rather than the opposite; but since ds remains undiagnosed (and maybe undiagnosable) other than "maybe somewhere on the spectrum" it would be useful to get a sense.