Hi Ruth,
Yeah portsmouths not far !
Sounds a lot the same as mine, seizures also from birth, and a hole in his heart, was very slow to gain weight, and suffered from very bad colic, which we now know might have been the calcium thing ! He also was not walking, talking, or potty trained till after 5yrs ! So hang in there cos i thought it would be like that for ever but slowly they will do it, and now 28yrs on he can do a lot more than anyone ever imagined !
He actually never shuts up now
Hes such a friendly chap, sometimes tho its a prob as he will just talk to complete strangers ! so can be vulnerable like that.
Like i said he never used to sleep at all, which was worse for me than him !
haha.....
We have been through many different stages, and each one seems bad, but you get through, you have too. And he also gives so much fun and love.
After looking at your pics, i went to find some of a simular age, and i think they look very simular !
Im on fb, dont know if you are ? i can give you my email if you like ?
sorry if im going on and on.... i will shut up now, lol
Nancy x