I will scream very loudly about two things please

[Clarissimo]

I know half the people ehre already know I am Peachy, tis Ok just needed to be less obvious in MN-main for a bit. 1. The new head who is teaching that if you rpay enough you get what you want causing the boys to come home an d tell ds3 that his autism has been caused by him not being good enough and not praying enough and tehrefore he deserves what he gets (am going to check it out atschool and if it is a fact that it was taught make an official complaint)

1. Some may remember the lost dinner money incidents from a while back? Well it seems ds1 was in fact having money extorted in exchange for friendship, and that until I found out at the weekend has been p[aying two children £1 a week each . School are gretting the cash back but don't see it as major enough to warrant any action beyond that, it seems ds1 has not only been paying lunch money across but having to steal from us to fund it. Arrrghhhhh.

Am decidenly Not Happy and considering a complaint to the Governots but if I do I know I am in for a major fight on my hands as its a very cliquey school indeed.

I'm presuming the parents will be informed .how old is ds1.very least they should apolgise to ds
sorry your having roughtime of it .so hope that's not true about ds3 though found lot of church schools go with the well your learning a lesson now as in the fact someone must done or not done something right

what vile hypocrisy - where fine sentiments about prayer are more important than dealing properly with bullying and extortion. best wishes for the battle ahead.

parents are not being informed,though if not I have no idea how ds1 is going to be refunded as promised.

I can''t see how extortion in ten year olds is OK tbh. I just can't. Whether its even worse if child is SN is debatable perhaps, but am sad that ds1 didn't realise it was wrong.

The parents need to be informed, how can they do anything about it if they don't even know? If my child had been bullying children I would WANT to know about it. I don't think it makes much difference whether the child being extorted has SN or not (although presumably makes him an easier victim), it is awful either way and if the parents aren't informed the school are as good as condoning bullying. I appreciate it's yet another fight but if it were me I think I'd have to take it further and complain.

Poor ds1 . This is terrible and you are right to be Not Happy. Fingers crossed for unit for Secondary - you and ds1 deserve it.