i saw my really nice HV today, she isnt off on long term sick leave thats another one with the same name, told her about what femfresh said and she said i can see her from now on she is arranging an appointment with a good doctor who is really up on child development/asd, and she told me to trust my instincts, feel a lot happier now and i have said bye bye to femfresh in my head!(what an awful nickname-my sisters not mine!)