due to a medical conditin my 5year old has no bowel control so has to wear nappies she has to have a lot of time off school due to this problem so is not learning as good as other kids ive just taken her ut of school due to bullying because of the nappies school are saying theres no bullying happening it has been suggested she go to a special needs school to help with her learning ad the fact of her bowel control but her mainstream school said its not necessary she will not be going back to that school but what should i do