Our dd is shortly to start using our local children's hospice for respite for the rest of our family: mainly so we can go on holiday while she is at the hospice. She attends a mainstream secondary school. The respite time will cross over with school time. do any of you have experience as to whether schools, special or mainstream, are happy to allow this time off? Do I have to suggest that she receive work from the school while she is there or do I have to use any of the "educated off site" terminology? I am sure the hospice will help me on this but just wanted advice from the experts (that's you ...)