Hi Jo
Thought it might be easier to start a new thread!
Sounds like you've had many challenges to face. Lack of information doesn't help does it?
My son is 6 - nearly 7. The diagnostic 'pathway' here is through the community paediatrician who refers on to the consultant paed at the hospital who then refers on the Child and Family Services.
In the meantime we have seen SALT and OT.
CFS have been absolutely and completely useless. The worst type of useless - whingy and self-justificatory to defend themselves.
I can CAT you if you want to talk further??