The party went well (well almost), dd held her ears for the whole time but managed a go on the bouncy castle, she sat to the table to eat which was great, the only bad bit (for me) was listening to an older child whisper (loudly) about how discusting dd2 was because she is a messy eater, luckily dd2 doesn't notice people talking about her but it upset me a little.
I think dd enjoyed it any way .