So, we are still in the statementing process... that's 19 months and counting now
dd1's paperwork all due in today.
we have done ours , and I know the school has done theirs too.
yesterday, i had a phonecall from the Ed Psych.
He informally observed dd1 back in March, when he wasn't her Ed Psych (mix up over paperwork meant dd1 wasn't in the system for a while after we moved - EP was visiting school anyway, for another child, and asked to informally take a look at dd1 while he was there. He didn't make a report on this (refused to when asked) as it was "only a quick look" so nothing to say)
Anyway, he hasn't seen dd1 again since then, and is not going to he is basing his report on what the school says (which is not fully accurate imo as dd1 is so very different while there) and on what he saw back in March.
apparently there is no need for another appt.
when I pointed out to him that we always ask professionals to see dd1 at home as well as at school (at school she presents as very low functioning - silent, not engaged, totally in her own world; at home she is lively, LOUD, chatty, bossy - you name it, really) so that they get a full picture of her, he mummbled a bit and said it was a bit late now
YES, I KNOW THAT, THAT WAS THE POINT I WAS MAKING - sorry for shouting, but honestly, it does make me mad.
so, now dd1's statementing rests on reports that are at least 18 months out of date. marvellous.