family support worker

[cheesesarnie]

she was supposed to come today about ds1 behaviour but shes not shown up!ive been in a panic about it and up early and tidying etc.

what happens on there first visit?i dont quite understand what she will do.

Originally ours was to supervise lunch, so she watched us both eat. (Massive distrust on their part of BLW and ds's ability to feed self (on 75th centile weight-wise!). That lasted 4-5 months.

Now they've got over that ours plays with ds2. (Their) idea is that this then gives me time to clean. In reality I've always been kept busy by dd, but I wouldn't anyway - many more useful things to do, sleep topping the list at the moment. (We get 1 hour.)

Depends what the political agenda is I suppose.

She is very nice, experienced etc though. Feel sorry for her in a way and what she's asked to do by her employers - awkward situations and all that.

right-shes now coming tomorrow!im still not sure what to expect though!